Does Time Really Heal?

When someone goes through something bad you always hear people trying to give them advice that time will heal them but is that even true? I would have to say that it is 100% wrong advice because time never heals. It is what you do with that time that makes healing possible. If you have bad things happen to you in and you never deal with what happened thinking that time will eventually heal your … Continue reading

Do You Feel Worthless?

I believe that some churches have done a disservice to God over the years. We have a society of Christians who believe they are worthless because the church has condemned them so much. They think unless you are perfect that you shouldn’t be in church. That is NOT of God. Sinners need to be in church. Once we accept Christ and our past is wiped clean then we are among the kings!!!! We aren’t supposed … Continue reading

Has satan Stolen Your Identity?

So many people work so hard at protecting their identity from identity thieves, but they forget the biggest thief of them all and that is satan. He creates lies that you believe and steals who God called you to be. Remember, do not allow who you think you are to stop you from becoming who God called you to be. If you are a Christian then you are worthy of his love. There is nothing … Continue reading

The Courage to be Vulnerable

A lot of people believe that being vulnerable means that you are weak, when in reality the opposite is true. It takes courage to be vulnerable. You will never live your true self until you can be vulnerable. I have to be honest, I don’t know any other way to be as I have always been that way. I was watching an Oprah Show on OWN and she was interviewing Dr. Brené Brown author of … Continue reading

Bondage Will Destroy You BUT In Christ you are FREE!

There are so many people who believe that following Christ keeps you in bondage and they just want to be free but that is so far from the truth. Bondage comes when we sin. We will be the most free when we are living fully for Christ. Any choices you make that involve any kind of sin create a bondage within your mind and soul. It is this bondage that will tear you down. Many … Continue reading

Taking Out the Trash!

Why do you take out the trash? It is trash right? What happens when you take the trash out? Do you ever go back and check on it to make sure it is at the dump? How do you know the garbage people took it there? Do you even care? Of course not then why do you do that with your past? Shouldn’t you treat your past the way you treat your trash? You should … Continue reading

Unless you have God in your Heart!

I see so many people pitching so many things from weight loss to making money that it isn’t even funny but I don’t hear many of them talk about God much. They preach that money will change your life or losing all that weight will change your life but in reality only God can change your life because he changes your heart. On the outside, it is only temporary but on the inside is where … Continue reading

What Label are You Wearing? (Part 2)

In my last blog post I talked about the labels you may be putting on others but in this post I would like to talk to you about the labels you may be putting on yourself. After I finished the last blog, I realized that I needed to do a part two because I missed the most important label of them all and that is of yourself. We all talk to ourselves everyday. We probably … Continue reading

What Label are You Wearing? (Part 1)

We just watched an episode of Dr. Phil and it was about the labeling of people. As we watched the show it really hit me hard as I look at some of the things I have thought in the past. WOW, I truly have labeled people without even realizing it and the crazy part is I do NOT like to be labeled. Don’t we all kind of do this? No matter who you are you … Continue reading

Thoughts, Attitude & Actions

When you look at life, there are only three things you have full control over. They are your thoughts, attitude and your actions. Outside of those three things you don’t have full control over anything else. I see many people who try to control their spouse or their kids or other people in general but they never have control over what others think, or do, only what they do themselves. In reality your thoughts determine … Continue reading